Seems like a both sided issue.
I don't think demanding to stop toxic behavior can be called toxic.
Otherwise what you're doing here is toxic, too. ;)
Genocide is what the Palestinians attempted - killing civilians, burning babies, and raping teenage girls.
Losing a war you started isn't genocide.
Israel is fully responsible for the murder of 40000+ of Palestinians and for starvation (simply due to being in full control of what can be given to Palestinians - if they don't want this responsibility, they can stop playing the occupation game) and massive property destruction of millions others. That's their state policy and result of their direct action. It's a democracy after all, as everyone is repeating ad nauseam.
Hamas and PIJ, and whoever else was in on the Oct 7 attack is responsible for killing most of those ~1200 people and not much more, I guess.
It's ridiculous to put blame on one side for what other side is doing to them in a carefully considered premeditated and well organized manner. This is not some personal heat of the moment self-defense, where the victim just reacts and tries to survive. You can't compare state action to that. Everything is premeditated and carefully planned.
If you go the route of blaming state action on the other side, we can go as far back as you like, to find some reason why something is other sides fault, lol.