>Plenty of people recognize when it's time.

Thank you for being relatively polite.

All of the replies to my original comment have veered off from what I tried to express with the phrase "right now".

I was alluding to a situation with rapid terminal cancer much later than diagnosis, but earlier than morphine + the end of communication. The fentanyl or oxycontin stage, as I recall it.

I think most likely if you are ever so slightly insulated from such a situation, you might not realize it.

Having a parent die of cancer when you are ~7 may not prepare you for having a parent die of cancer when you are ~37. That is how I see it now.