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Yes, forgiveness is really for the offended, not the offender. It can be a heavy weight to carry.

Doesn't the offender carry a heavy weight anymore?

The Jewish folk have the day of atonement Yom Kippur (Day of atonement). The day to ask for forgiveness and forgive others.

I believe Henny Youngman, one-liner comedian said:

"Yesterday was Yom Kippur, I went a bought a Mercedes" ;)

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