Can you give a source that backs up your claim that the banned person here has shared any kind of hate.
Changing someone's pronouns without their permissions seems like least of their offenses.
Hyprland discord appears to be a cesspool and one fermented by Vaxry himself, trans hate or otherwise. Now some people are saying - they have improved (and others are saying they have not). But reading his blog posts and seeing current status, I am not optimistic. I mean you can't make this stuff up. Why use a opensource discord community for sharing porn? (which likely have minors).
Remember to follow hyperlinks. They're there for a reason.