A few things here.
First, yes, there's several tools which provide (incomplete) feature selection functionality, you can see some sibling comments for examples.
Second, especially in complex projects, the presence of a feature doesn't necessarily mean it's sufficiently complete to be workable. You can run into issues like, say, "I need io_uring, but I need an io_uring op added in version X.Y and so it's not sufficient to say 'do I support io_uring.'" Or you can run into issues like "this feature exists, but it doesn't work in all cases, particularly the ones I want to use it for."
Third, there's no real alternative to feature detection. In practice, build systems need to cope with systems that pretend to be other systems via incompletely-implemented compatibility layers. Version detection ends up creating the User-Agent problem, where every web browser pretends to be somebody pretending to be somebody pretending to be Netscape 5.x and if you try to fix this, the web breaks. (Not to mention the difficulty of sniffing versions correctly; famously, MS skipped Windows 9 reportedly because too many build systems interpreted that to mean Windows 95 or Windows 98 with catastrophic results).
The end result of all of this is that the most robust and reliable way to do feature detection is to try to use the feature and see if it works.