Nothing comes to mind. Honestly it might be an "it's not you, it's me" thing. I keep my optimism to myself and when people talk about spirituality, community, building connections, etc., I feel like they're about to sell me something.

I recently got divorced and I'm sleeping around a bit. The social groups for sleeping around are rarely called churches. There's no Satanic Temple around here or I'd try visiting them.

I saw that "Sacred Harp" a capella style posted here on HN a few weeks ago and it captured my interest. I like the idea that I wouldn't have to be a great singer, I could just be part of a bunch of people doing something for the sake of fun. But even the UU hymns feel too saccharine for me already.