That’s a good answer, too, especially of that custom message can be large enough to display the name & amount. Anything to jar people out of the “I thought I was sending $100 to the cable TV company, not $6,000 to someone in India” autopilot state.
I generally agree with your larger point and wish that banks would make it easier to do things like setup a Yubikey and require it be used on any transaction over a certain amount. I’ve never in my life needed to make a large transaction where I wouldn’t have been able to grab a token from my safe to approve it, and at some point delay becomes a security feature since it give the bank staff time to do things like call you and make sure you really intended to do something.