Lonely people will seek attention and affection, we shouldn't blame them for being human. IMHO if we want to talk about this issue let's start by examining the causes and conditions for loneliness becoming so prevalent that it became a market for OF and the like to serve. Most people with an OF subscription would likely rather keep their money, and instead have a loving partner at home. As such they are (IMHO) victims of societal and cultural conditions beyond their control, and deserve compassion.

I'm a male on the conservative side and think this should all be banned-- most female Americans would disagree and call me puritanical for this. It's seen as part of the culture, a necessary sacrifice for freedom. Blaming only men doesn't help when there are women normalizing this stuff too.