Congrats on the sobriety! Will be 5 years for me this May. I also found myself in a similar place as you in the months that followed quitting drinking: feeling a bit “now what?” and seeking some sort of guidance or structure for my life beyond the empty platitudes I saw in most self help content.
And then at just the right time I came across these three blog posts which really helped create a personal roadmap of sorts. Sharing in the hope that they get you closer to what you’re seeking!
1. 7 Strange Questions That Help You Find Your Life Purpose https://markmanson.net/life-purpose
2. How to Grow Up and Be More Mature https://markmanson.net/how-to-grow-up
3. Personal Values: How to Know Who You Really Are https://markmanson.net/personal-values