That's the real beauty of bitcoin: exploiting the early-ish internet's cultural norm of placing respect for individual privacy and anonymity above all else, in order to defer responsibility for any controversy its core backers want to shirk to an anonymous, impersonal, but somehow always correct "protocol."
I agree with everything you said. Even the security it promotes is false advertising. Yes maybe Bitcoin ~itself~ is secured but the rest is not. It has to live on server, network, software, etc… and those are not 100% secured. Look at the money stolen. There has been more money lost through hacks and wallet stolen than any traditional bank…
Security on transaction also is a joke. I have never heard a CEO being so concerned by fraud and Visa and others that they need so much Bitcoin… Unless they do very shady businesses. Tomorrow I do a startup it will use Visa etc and I will sleep just fine. If you run the number with fraud costs etc also included for Bitcoin and traditional ways, from micropayments to $100B money transfer. The traditional is way cheaper and sometimes actually more secured overall.
And I can go on and on… It’s just greed.