I think this should be more nuanced: the DOM itself has been fast for 10-15 years but things like layout are still a concern on large pages. The problem is that the DOM, like an ORM, can make it easy to miss when you’re requesting the browser do other work like recalculating layout, and also that as people started using heavier frameworks they started losing track of what triggers updates.
Lists are an interesting challenge because it’s surprisingly hard to beat a well-tuned browser implementation (overflow scrolling, etc.) but a lot of people still have the IE6 instincts and jump for implementing custom scrolling, only to find that there are a lot of native scrolling implementation features which are hard to match, and at some point they realize that what they really should have done was change the design to make layout easier to calculate (e.g. fixed or easily-calculated heights) or displayed fewer things at once.