Yes, I've talked with my coworkers about the annoying girlboss character trope in recent films.

For my part, certainly. It's an important part of how I keep emotional liabilities out of the company.

What was racist about what they said?

"Would you say that in person" is a terrible standard. Imagine a gay person beong confronted by a homophobe. "I dare you to come up to me and kiss your boyfriend right in front of my face where I can see it."