Even though I am not a fan, Ada seems to be a good choice for this sort of thing. People have years of experience, the language design pushes towards safety, and the compilers are well optimized.
Not exactly relevant to this discussion, but good to keep in mind.
I have no problem believing that aerospace people distrust optimizers. They are in fact unlikely to trust anything before they have inspected the assembler output from the compiler.
Quick development has its drawbacks as well, as you so beautifully demonstrated.