I agree with the parent comment, but I would phrase it as:
This article feels so foreign to me because I’m not trying to be productive. I don’t have a productively system, because I’m not.
I complete my works tasks. Those usually have lists.
After work and on the weekends, I spend time with friends and family, and do hobbies as I enjoy them.
Beyond that, I don’t try to remember things. I let stuff slip through the cracks (ok, I have a planner for birthdays). I don’t try to get things done.
For what it’s worth, if you looked at my life on the outside, you’d probably think I was “productive”. I can speak multiple languages, I make music, I play sports, and I have various programming projects going.
But I don’t do any of those things because they are productive. Every day after work, I spend an hour or two doing whatever I enjoy in a completely non-systemic manner. And I find that over a multi-year time span you actually can accomplish a great deal with this “non-system”