I don't buy these statistical arguments.
If only one sentient species is born before 20 billion years have passed since the big bang, and ten million sentient species are born after that time, yes - statistically, you're more likely to be one of the later species.
But that early worm species still exists, and experiences its existence.
If they thought to themselves, "obviously there's others out there, it's statistically certain!", then they are wrong.