I'm not even vegetarian, much less a vegan. But it's not honest to draw a false equivalence between salad and meat.
> Let’s not pretend that it’s not a well earned reputation.
It's not.
Judging a group by their loudest and most obnoxious members is lazy and intellectually dishonest; even if it happens all the time.
Most vegans I know are placid and kind. I'd have to say that meat eaters are far more obnoxious about vegans than vice versa.
Same as the people I know who complain about the 'stoner lifestyle' and think that this justifies prohibition. They're far more irritating to me than the average cannabis enthusiast, most of whom you wouldn't know from looking at them, and most of whom don't make cannabis their personality.
Deep down, us meat eaters know that we're eating an animal that had feelings like ours (or we're ignorant). And, we know that the Western diet is contributing to deforestation and a burning planet (again, or we're willfully ignorant).
Attacking vegans is like attacking a cyclist for believing in climate change, because a few cyclists had the audacity to suggest we use the car less or fund public transport. Popular - but lame.