If you submit a batch every 5ms, then on average you are adding 2.5 ms of latency per request sitting in the batch buffer. But with 100k requests/second for example, you are getting batches of 500, which will get a lot more out of your database. Realistically, most people have far fewer than 100k requests/second, but the idea works at lower levels too. Even batches of 10 will give you a good boost. If you don't have enough requests/second to put together 10 requests/5 ms batch (2k req/s), then why worry about bottlenecks?
Wall time spent on a single request is the wrong way to understand performance for scalability. You can amortize wall time across many requests.
Also your db should be caching stuff for many workloads. Reddit gets about 80 GB/month of new posts/comments based on scraped dumps. An entire month of threads should fit in buffer pool cache no problem. If they really wanted to, their whole text history is only ~2.5TB, which you can fit in RAM for a relatively small amount of money compared to an engineer's salary. They should be getting very high cache hit ratios. Workloads with smaller working sets should always be cached.