Modern cars are just so huge, and have so much junk in them. I get a large fraction of the mass is for safety, but (for the same money) I'd much rather have a tighter, lighter, stripped down car than a clunky infotainment system, seat coolers, fragile wood trim, motorized ac vents and handles. I'll even sacrifice some sound deadening and rear AC.
And EVs, of course, just make this issue worse. Their "fuel" is such a large fraction of their mass that they more-or-less suffer from the tyranny of the rocket equation, where they need more battery to haul more stuff around, which in turn requires more battery, and now the chassis and suspension needs to be reinforced to handle the weight, and now that needs more battery and so on.