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> I basically won the game

There are many ways to play this game, and I think it’s a bit early to declare yourself a winner if you haven’t even hit your deathbed.

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Of course there are many ways. But as a consequence of this it doesnt matter how you play your game, I have won mine. If by example you think winning your game requires X children then do it. But the feeling that you need X children is as subjective as my feeling of winning my game

You don’t seem to think of children as people in your life, but as objects or objectives. That’s IMO not a healthy way of approaching this topic.

Also a bit strange to call yourself the winner when you're clearly not happy. I think OP has misunderstood the game.

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