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There isn't a single manufacturer that consistently gets this right, only different shades of gray.
If Apple was having hardware and software defects at the rate of recent Pixel phones scaled to the iPhone's marketshare, it would be massive news.
Half the time, they have no perception of, or perspective whatsoever on what's buggier than what they were previously using.
> I am getting too old to have time to fiddle with this stuff and just want something that works.
I definitely find the iPhone great.
It _generally_ just works. If shit does break there's no fiddling... it's just broken. If it doesn't work the way you want there's no fiddling... suck it up or get a new phone.
I was going to say it's like an appliance and compare it to my toaster, but I would 100% end up at my kitchen table angrily disassembling my toaster if it failed to make me breakfast one morning.