Hey, buy a bunch of switches, sensors, etc. from us which all conform to an open standard (Zigbee?). Then, buy our controller unit and install our iphone/android apps. It'll work after just a bit of monkey-see-monkey-do configuration. Yeah, you have to get a screwdriver out and figure which breaker is associated with each room, but it ain't rocket science. If we go away, you might eventually have to buy another controller, but your investment in switches, sensors, etc. and all your time spent with a screwdriver won't be for nothing -- competitors are likely to support the same stuff.
This is what I want, and I would gladly spend in excess of $1K for it. Maybe $2K? This would be a bargain compared to paying for a Control4 reseller to come to my house and sell me a turnkey solution.