Then why do our genetic memories compel us to be terrified of them
I've certainly never found them even a little bit frightening. I've definitely felt like "someone's home" but it's probably the big eyes bias.
I can’t believe how frequently I have to say this to people: instinct is far from reason.
If you know something about berries, like this species is definitely poisonous, and this species is definitely safe, and this species you don't know anything about, then it is perfectly safe to avoid the first and third and indulge in the second.
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