It seems to me you're projecting our own human nature over all possible intelligent life.
But with a bit of imagination the potential space of intelligent life is much larger than just "displaying human-like agressive traits".
But with a bit of imagination the potential space of intelligent life is much larger than just "displaying human-like agressive traits".
Upate: Other people in the thread have mentioned 3 Body Problem, I would recommend taking a look, it completely changed how I think about this.