You should reflect on the possibility that you might be tailgating.
The trouble is that individual drivers optimize for perception, leading to a tragedy of the commons situation.
It is your responsibility to maintain a safe distance between you and other vehicles.
I’d be surprised if traffic regulations in your area don’t talk about minimum safe distances. Not maintaining those to 1) get somewhere faster and 2) avoiding being honked at by some psycho, kinda sounds risky.