The difference between an account and an identity was so unclear when I signed up for Discord that I actually just closed the app and gave up on whatever led me there.
The identity and “server” concepts are complete non-starters for me.
Discord is in complete control of what information is shared with other users. There’s no mechanical prevention on them changing this behavior by accident or on purpose.
You're making this sound a little more dramatic than it is. Discord only makes your membership in a server public to users who are also members of that server (and who could thus see you in its member list).
There's also a Chinese firm that owns a decent stake - tencent, I think.
On the plus side when it inevitably shuts down I will be unaffected.
It does really not help that the target audience for Discord is 14 year old gamers.
I paid for decent audio quality, got advertisements too
I’m not a community member, I’m a paying customer.
I would never use it for something professional/business related.