Agreed and well put. This is one reason why bootstrapping is such an attractive alternative for many who are able.
An example from another industry is successful restaurants - if you don’t franchise you’re basically capped, and some are quite content with that. A local bar “franchised” - each of the kids of the original owner has their own variation on the bar/restaurant.
"Lifestyle business or scalable business", and "bootstrapping or vc" are largely orthogonal concerns. Not completely as there's basically no path to taking VC funding to build a lifestyle business. But the converse does not hold - you can certainly bootstrap a company that is meant to grow into far more than a "lifestyle company". Is it easy? No, but nothing worth doing ever is...