I find third-party language policing to be a barrier to effective communication.
If the (presumably adult, competent) person being replied to takes offense, they are perfectly capable of suggesting different phrasing.
If the (presumably adult, competent) person being replied to takes offense, they are perfectly capable of suggesting different phrasing.
The beauty of multiple sub-comments is that a 3rd party can put in a side note and allow the original parties to listen or ignore as they feel fit.