I ended up becoming a radiologist. Never heard a radiology resident quiting, although have seen a few residents get kicked out for mental issues or gross incompetence.
How on Earth do you get to "resident" and have "gross incompetence"?
There are sooo many gates before getting to be a "resident" that this completely baffles me.
Residency: move to a different location away from family, no longer living in a dormitory environment with the expectations associated with being a student but are now a real adult making your way in the world. Suddenly you have to make the whole package work on your own without laundry/cooking/mental health/financial support.
Now you can no longer put 100% of yourself into your studies, but instead can only manage the 60 or 70% that most people can muster when they have to actually maintain their physical existence while also meeting their professional expectations.
I'm an anesthesiologist. There are people who wash out because they just don't have the temperament for it. They're not dumb, they're not even bad doctors, they just aren't mentally equipped to sit back and relax while running a code.
Obviously that’s one side of the equation, I don’t have any surgeon friends I know well enough to give the opposing view.
Though some people are less burdened by golden handcuffs and sunk-cost fallacy
Plus, I've never met a happy (or sane) neurosurgeon
Sure, the hemmhorage needs to be fixed, so you're preventing further damage, but every cut may cause unknown ramifications. Anyway, I'm postulating a neurosurgeon would be aware of this, and have to carry that around with them.
I value the former and find ways to discount the latter. So I am very happy. Though sane or not would be up to others.
Seems perfectly reasonably to switch to a lower stress career at some point.