I worked for a serious buyer when I had this casual conversation with the vendor. You do business with my former employer (I've spoken to you before, when you took over cia.vc). I'd consider those facilities "real" datacenters, and they're certainly the same size, if not significantly larger, than your hosting outfit. No need to appeal to authority with me, honestly, I think we're on the same page -- I think your comment misread me as pricing routers instead of mitigation gear.
As for flows, I was interested in a solution that I didn't have to write software to implement. I'd rather have a supported appliance that can handle figuring out DoS attacks itself, rather than me parsing flows and feeding that information back. That way, if the software doesn't work, I can blame somebody else rather than me. My time is precious. Yours sounds less so, and that's your prerogative.