Does that mean you should be more surprised if your predictions are wrong? It depends. You've only reduced model error, but this is the classic precision versus accuracy problem. You can very precisely estimate the wrong number. Does the model really reflect the underlying data generating process? Are the inputs you're giving reliable measurements? If both answers are yes, then your more precise model should be converging toward a better prediction of the true value, but if not, you're only getting a better prediction of the wrong thing.
We can ask these questions with this very example. Clearly, ARIMA is not a causally realistic model. Criminals don't look at last year's crime rates and decide whether to commit a crime based on that. The assumption is that, whatever actually does cause crime, it tends to happen at fairly similar levels year to year, that is, 2020 should be more different than 2010 than it is different from 2019. We may not know what the causually relevant factors really are or we may not be able to measure them, but we at least assume they follow that kind of rule. This sounds plausible to me, but is it true? We can backtest by making predictions of past years and seeing how close they are to the measured value, but the possibility of this even working depends upon the answer to the second question.
So then the second question. Is the national violent crime data actually reliable? I don't know the answer to that, but it certainly isn't perfect. There is a real crime rate for every crime, but it isn't exactly the reported number. Recording and reporting standards vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Many categories of crime go undereported, the extent of which can change over time. Changes may reflect different policing emphasis as much as or more than changes in the underlying true rate. I believe the way the FBI even collects and categorizes data has changed in the past, so I'm not sure a measurement from 1960 can be meaningfully compared to a measurement from 2020.
Ultimately, "how surprised you should be when you are wrong" needs to take all of these sources of error into account, not just the model's coefficient uncertainty.