To be clear: RISC-V does also support instructions above 32bit. This was stressed during the discussion.
Qualcomm's focus in the discussion seemed to be to have RVA23 be a fixed size ISA. They failed to convince the board, as the ISA's variable size was designed to be very easy for a hardware decoder implementation to deal with, unlike m68k or x86.
To provide some practical real world RISC-V hardware examples, SiFive P870 is 6-wide, Tenstorrent Ascalon is 8-wide, Ventana Veyron V2 seems to be 12-wide.
Whereas modern x86 microarchitectures seem to be 4-wide and struggling to break into 6-wide, while the largest ARM aarch64 (which is fixed 32bit size) microarchitectures, Apple's M1/M2/M3, are 8-wide.