I don't believe that GDPR applies to a mailing list, let alone to private email between individuals. Does someone have chapter and verse?
Side note: I know someone who requested their data to their DPA, and part of the response contained emails mentioning them and their complaints in the _content_ of the message (they were not in the From:, To:, Cc:, or Cci: fields). All names and emails address were censored, though, in accordance with 15(4).