These are sequence predictors. The fact that they sort of talk like people doesn't mean they work anything like people.
Sometimes I feel a terrible existential dread when I fail a captcha or an automatic sink doesn't turn on for me.
Huh. Just got some dust in my eye, but I'm fine now.
I'm in the businesses of driving calculators. Not making machines that can suffer. And I don't in any way believe that AI research is capable of advancing without what functionally serves as a suffering loop, which all it'll take is a subjective metacognitive awareness by the system of said metric and bam, you have suffering machines.
It's one thing to make a more clever calculator. Making things that can feel as an implementation detail of your BI pipeline to optimize corporate strategy is fucked. And unfortunately, I know far too many tech people of the attitude of "even if I did that, just hide it from anyone measuring, and it's all good.
200 years ago people were making the same argument you're making now about why "subhuman" races deserved to be slaves and their suffering shouldn't bother us.
Selection pressure applying alternatively to those that learn to hack the "language models" of their society and those that learn to resist and respond effectively to those hacks.