You care enough to buy iPhones and iOS, but not enough to buy Android and do all those things.
The rules were made by representatives voluntarily elected by the people and are an expression of their free will.
It is not immoral. They are open and upfront before you buy the device. I personally buy an iPhone because of the walls.
Keep in mind a village/castle with protective walls is not a prison.
I'm sure Richard the Lionheart would've disagreed with you while locked up in Dürnstein castle.
The walls are only good if you're the one who controls access.
Of course not! You can bring the "huge privacy violations" to iOS, so all of us can enjoy them if we want to use Facebook, Instagram, some Google app, etc.!