If I understand correctly, this was the expected and most likely outcome. The planned lifespan of the lander and rover was only 14 days.
I suspect so and I also think that if you are going to test your skills, then being realistic in the first place is good idea. The mission was always sold as unlikely to survive the night but that would be a nice to have if it did.
For me the mission seems to have worked rather well and performed exactly as billed.
Vertically-integrating it yourself is one thing, but I'd expect NASA exporting a chunk of plutonium to India, even if they're both are nuclear states, would be challenging.
You cannot compare these.