(As an example - the top HN article at this moment is about iPhone being hacked).
I really think that Apple could have/could still head this off by introducing a separately branded edgier "dev" phone for people who want to live on the cutting edge. Give it a different persona (gamer hardware form factor and use distinctive UX elements) to ensure that when the journalist tries to create masthead graphics for their clickbait article, its obvious it only applies to non-walled garden phones.
Then let the market decide - maybe in fact the majority of Apple smartphone users do in fact want live life on the edge.