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And so in your opinion maybe he doesn't deserve life? Give it to someone less cautious?
There is a “before” and an “after” regardless of if you survive this type of thing or not. As the parent of a kid that had cancer (in remission a few months ago) we absolutely have those thoughts in those ways.
Going out was painful, but each time I "rebooted", I had a fierce joy for being alive.
When his friend pulled him off me, I thanked him. For not killing me, sure, but also for showing me the boundary of life.
Having dealt with similar situations on both sides, equating the two is not something that should be done.
Neither should be trivialized, but they should not be equated.
What's the 'right' way to take this? Do tell.
Pharrell Williams said once "There's more space in the negative"
I dont think you get to tell anyone how to use their life. Still less to tell a dying person that "maybe you deserve to die".