> Be in a situation if you mess up, you'll get severe negative reactions from others.

I agree with seeking a position of responsibility, and be accountable, but i disagree with the above point. Specifically with the severe part. I think two of the most important lessons are to learn from your mistakes (accepting that you will fail sometimes), and when you fail/make a mistake take the responsibility.

Having severe reactions from others for when you make a mistake (I.e a beat down and not constructive critism) is a recipe for disaster.