Okay Mr. English, trivial may be defined as unimportant / trifling but if you're gonna label something like that then you have you consider why you're calling it unimportant. Still seems you're saying it's cheap, easy, and undoable. It's not.
Abstraction building is _consequential_.
> If you don't do that first "one go" how do get around to right abstraction?
Right back at you: how do you get the data about how to build your abstraction without first living without one to understand what parts of the system should be abstracted? Starting with the abstraction and assuming you can fix it later is a luxury for overstaffed teams and people working on systems that nobody actually uses.
You do realize, abstractions incur mental load on your users? Have you ever tried to use internal tools built ostensibly for your use case, only to find that it's taking more time and effort than if you lived without one? It's happened to me so many times, and the consequence of adopting a shitty abstraction has burned me so many times personally that I'm gravely aware of the downsides.
Consider a streaming data tool that stupidly allowed users to put arbitrary data in a string field, which became abused for purposes it shouldn't have been used for -- now it's critical to the company and would take a YEAR of dev resources to retire, all the while being an endless source of headache and P0 SRE escalations.
Consider an ML evaluation tool that requires you to understand how a bunch of leaky abstractions nest together. When you finally figure out how it works and it does 1 thing for you (generate P/R curves), it becomes extremely difficult to modify or debug without again understanding these horrible abstractions. Once you've spent a full quarter adopting it, you wish your team had just written something custom-but-maintainble instead of trying to get shoehorned into a tool that clearly wasn't thinking about you, and whose owners have left the company leaving you to absorb the cost.
> But doing no abstraction is just as painful -- you just pay for it differently.
It's less painful in the long run: doing no abstraction to start is often the right path. People often overrate the benefits of abstraction and underrate the clarity of repetition, especially when the repetition is trivial.