There are alternatives I listed, the choice is not between "unlimited time off" and "mandatory". "Unlimited time off" would probably stand beneath "use-it-or-lose-it" in my evaluation because with the latter I'd be able to collect my PTO balance upon resignation.
>And without those plans, accrued time off is lucky to hit 2 weeks a year.
I never had less than 20 days (4 weeks) PTO, not counting holidays and Christmas lockdown and since I did not bother to negotiate any special PTO, I believe thousands upon thousands of my coworkers had the same luck.
>So I have to not be sick or have emergencies for 2 years straight to get what is normal in the EU?
I believe if you took a SWE job for what the normal in EU you could have also negotiated 10 weeks of PTO on top of that.
>It's easier to force mandatory vacation than go through all that.
It might be easier that that, whatever that is, but it's not desirable for me.
>Where are you where you can accumulate "months of time off"?
In the last TNC where I worked, I cashed out over two months of PTO (it capped over 40 days, 380 hours or some strange number like that) when I resigned.
>Every plan I've had had max accruals of anywhere from 14-28 days
So? If PTO is so important to you just make it a condition of your employment, it's just money for the employer, take more PTO, take less other comp. It's as same as if it had been made mandatory except people who are not interested in long vacations can have cash instead.