Defective by Detailing.
As far as what they're thinking-- they do put out an uncensored base model. The censored models protect them from being smeared in the press by lazy journalists that give the LLM rude instructions and then write "shocked" stories about computer doing what they told it to do.
I understand the optics around why FB/OpenAI/etc do this, (as a sibling user posted), but make no mistake, it is no accident that it talks to you in a condescending way.
For example, why can't the response just be "I am not allowed to answer that request"? Why does it have to give you this condescending spiel about "offensiveness" or some other subjective reason?
The response quoted above makes no mention of offensiveness, and I explained the need to decline certain requests above.
I understand your sentiment, and I would agree if it was the stock response we are used to from ChatGPT. Unlike the condescending stock response from ChatGPT, however, the response in question is to the point, honest, and provides useful feedback.