In my personal experience, as a now more seasoned lifter, most people have knee pain in squats because they load the quads and arrest the squat early with the quads rather than hitting full depth. Once your hip crease is below the top of your kneecap, your quads are no longer bearing the load! If you're stopping the lift prior to that, then you're applying a ton of torque to the knee directly with the quad, rather than letting the much more robust posterior chain absorb the energy of the descent.
If you haven't tried squatting low-bar, you might give it a go - it makes it much easier to move with the posterior chain. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bs_Ej32IYgo is my single favorite squat video on the internet. Lots of really good info in it.
But, if you don't see improvement, I highly recommend seeing someone who can diagnose and correct how you move.
I myself had _terrible_ knee pain from squatting. Then my knee started randomly buckling when I would walk.
So I started filming myself. I also used TUBOW [3] to figure out that my knees were drifting far too forward. I corrected my technique accordingly, and started engaging the hips properly. My knee pain went away and I've been pain-free ever since.
- [1] Learn to Squat, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhoikoUEI8U
- [2] Squats and Your Knees, https://startingstrength.com/article/squats-and-your-knees
- [3] Using the TUBOW with Mark Rippetoe, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-P_w6dpDC2ICheck out "knees over toes guy", he has a wealth of good free information on knee recovery.
I'm 30 and I squat pain free twice per week despite 3 knee dislocations. Good luck friend
It takes time to develop a good squat. Many people seem to be limited by their range of motion, especially in the ankles, at least to start off with.
I used Starting Strength to learn how to squat roughly 12 years ago, do squats regularly and have never injured myself even temporarily doing squats although I use much less weight than grandparent does.
Point being, if you don't know what's causing your knee pain, it's probably a good idea to figure it out first, then think about what could help.
I do think weight training is important, but with physical limitations...
That goes away once the muscles gain strength.
I've had a personal trainer for years now and in my early 40s I can squat merrily with no pain. Also my neck and back pain have vanished, along with headaches I used to get that would start around the back of my neck and move over my head.
Strength training really is amazing. My only regret is 20 years as an adult not doing it.
My wife taking every excuse to touch my leg muscles is just an added bonus!
With those surgeries, starting under the supervision of a PT is a great idea, though. They'll know how to build you up safely.
Over the shoulder throws and ball slams were my leg exercises for a long time.
Edit: the main thing was having a good pt who was aware of my injuries. They could tell me when to stop and when to push.