This sounds like a dream for a hacker, but a single hacker. I am recently married, and it has been discussed to move up to San Fransisco, but we ended up realizing it wasn't the right time to move yet.

To leave your wife for a few months and live out of your car is not an admirable move. My thought is, once you get married then your spouse is your priority, everything else excluding family is second.

San Francisco might be start-up paradise, but by scanning through Craigslist, you will see tons of startups in the Los Angeles. I don't know if Kurt will see these comments, but I highly suggest he rethink this. By moving to San Francisco, he is leaving his biggest supporter: his wife.