I don’t really think your comment is a fair take. While it very well may be “actually what happened”, there are a lot of other reasons to hire from and foster your community rather than try to compete with them. It’s possible Headscale just does a better job at capturing a clean boundary between a public open source tool and a proprietary backend and Tailscale might have just liked what they saw, said well this is essentially how we’d do it, and made the smart decision to put the person on payroll instead of taking advantage of the community.
Furthermore IDK what your gripe is about management tools popping up on top of Wireguard. That’s what Jason wanted, for one. The downstream application use cases are kept out of the secure and simple core. Two just use vanilla Wireguard if you don’t need Tailscale. Are you an OpenVPN shill?