If the goal is to encourage usage, then just subsidize it, but eventually it all comes down to wear and taxes, you cannot ignore a car that weights 10x as much as a normal car.
There are ways to make the road stronger if the government really cares about such things. But they don't it ends up being yearly cost = total upfront cost / average life span which in there mind is cheaper than a bigger upfront cost that lasts longer.
Weight increase is ~30% https://www.politifact.com/article/2023/jun/21/carry-that-we...
And all that extra weight is in the battery. Over time, batteries will shrink to the point where EVs are lighter on average.
Nothing unfortunate about it at all. Why shouldn't an EV Hummer or Ford Lightning pay up for the weight on the road?