I use it, mostly with expo. Everything works out of the box and performance is actually surprising (because of Hermes engine), I'd say its a lot better than all other alternatives when it comes to cross platform development solution, simply because flutter is the only real competitor and flutter has few problems that makes it unbearable for me:
1) lots of copy-paste boilerplate code 2) ios apps behave weirdly in flutter (maybe they still havent fixed 1 frame lag with touch/swipe/scroll events? idk) 3) they're not using native components but implementing them on canvas. This sounds extremely prone to issues and bugs and requires them to catch up to update stuff once platform holders change something in their UI kits.
If I had to pick a tech right now, I'd go
React Native -> Jetpack Compose/Swift UI -> Flutter -> Anything else