You are bringing your anecdotes up in the face of fact, just FYI.
I've dated people with hundreds of past partners and I've dated kissless virgins. People are people.
Not everyone is promiscuous; not everyone is a prude.
I've dated people with hundreds of past partners and I've dated kissless virgins. People are people.
Not everyone is promiscuous; not everyone is a prude.
They’re suggesting that data (trends and averages) contradict your perception, which is mostly based on anecdata and your own feeling I imagine.
You should entertain that option, since that’s the whole point of looking at data.