Everything you've just said is gibberish to a master.
It's like making a straight-faced argument that setting the speed limit to 1 mph on a motorway might make perfect sense, and the traffic engineer is actually at fault for not making it clear that this is nonsense.
I get that you don't see the ridiculousness of 50 microseconds vs 5 milliseconds, but that's the point.
You don't see it, and you start making random arguments untethered from reality.
The fact that you are blind to it, unlike being blind to 1 mph vs 65 mph is the entire point.
You may have driven thousands of hours. You have don't have thousands of hours of network performance tuning expertise.
Both of us wouldn't be able to even begin to understand the complaints Ayrton Senna might make about how the steering is too "crunchy" at the extremes or that the brake strength imbalance is shifting the car about.
There's levels of expertise, and if two people are too far apart, meaningful communication between them becomes impossible.
Law firms are run by lawyers. The chief of surgery is a surgeon. Architecture firms are run by architects at the top.
Why is it that in IT it is expected that all management of IT is “non technical” to the point of not understanding what they’re hearing from direct reports!?
Would it be normal in your mind for a chemical plant foreman in charge of the process to not know what atoms are!?
Ok? But you are required to motivate a decision that is based on terms, conditions, probabilities, consequences that can only be encoded at knowledge-level A. When projected down to knowledge-level C, it sounds like "otherwise bad things might happen".
The jargon is not what matters. The logic of the decision is not meaningful or believable without knowledge of the "physics of the system" at level A.
Most people understand nuclear bombs in layman terms, and they understand them intuitively from watching videos and pictures. Without videos and pictures, no one would care.
Have you ever spent any significant time in an environment where most people are not (children of) college graduates? Because this is absurd. The average person who has just finished a year of high school physics probably can’t tell you those.
Do they work for a high frequency trading firm? Do they make a CRUD app which has few users and (as much as I hate that) "they can wait even 5 seconds".
If the person does not give context then they dont explain well..
On a side note: for me the problem seems to be not the speed, but the choke point - just 2 servers (with no redudancy?). What one or both go down?
That is rather a condescending take: calling yourself a master and calling their words gibberish is hardly thoughtful dialogue. Other parts of your comment are equally bad “ untethered from reality” should not be written. Someone is trying to engage with you and you are dismissing them by using very charged words. Even worse you are demonstrating poor communications skills - that point being questioned elsewhere in the thread. I hope you can learn to listen to others politely even when you disagree, and please try to follow https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html :
Be kind. Don't be snarky. Converse curiously; don't cross-examine. Edit out swipes. Comments should get more thoughtful and substantive, not less, as a topic gets more divisive. When disagreeing, please reply to the argument instead of calling names. "That is idiotic; 1 + 1 is 2, not 3" can be shortened to "1 + 1 is 2, not 3." Please don't fulminate. Please don't sneer.You've disproved this yourself earlier in this comment. You made an analogy to explain a concept to a non-expert.
It is entirely on you to make yourself understood to non-experts. It is both possible and extremely important.