Asking for a release date is a perfectly reasonable request! My response was highly influenced by the context. I came back with "email me for a support contract" because 1) I previously stated in the thread that we will not ship a patch release for this[^1] and 2) the commenter emphasized the impact on their paying customers. So this was all I had to add there. I agree that I could have phrased this more nicely, but I personally don't feel my reply was totally over the top.
[^1]: the CVE itself is bogus and we don't use that part of the dependency.