Looking at the datasets for the WD Red Pro for example, there's idle/peak dBa from 34/38 for the 10TB to 20/32 for the 20TB
34 dBa idle. Are you kidding me?
I ended up settling on the 18TB btw, as that's all there was at the time, 20/36 dBa.. and quite happy with them, and they're "normal loud". Noticable sitting next to the pc, more so when active, but not from more than a few metres away - and ZFS doing a scrub no longer sounds like a an industrial accident either, so thats nice.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Automatic_acoustic_managemen...
I bought that one because it was big, relatively cheap and read on /r/DataHoarder that datacenter HDDs are slightly less likely to have issues (not sure how realistic vs superstition that might be though, main reason i got it was because it was big).
Even spinning rust disks these days are very quiet by comparison.